hiii everyone,
my exams are over and for next three days there is holiday...a sort of mini midterm break...
from many days i am thinking to start something new.life has been a bit busy and i feel i didnt utilise the time properly....last week i had a bit of arguement with my girlfriend.not so much...actually she is good at solving matters and much more patient than me and i love her for that.three more months are left in this academy and when i see that which is the most important thing which i have learned in these years,then i can say that this is the acceptence and comrehension of the fact that all people are not same and even if they are given a good advice ,many times they will take you for granted...so as my previous adjutant was used to say when you are in a thick shit dont make noise and keep shut....
most of the time this funda works and thats why i have become one of those who speaks less but im not an introvert...it is just that i speak only when i feel that the other person will respect my thoughts...i also dont like to act in a specific manner just to please others and become popular.one should have a courage to become different and go against the group if required,however in army this may be quite dangerous sometimes.
but there are some people who just cant act in a gentle manner..i cant understand why....just because by making fun of a chap who is saying against you one finds happiness or this is the protest of a group against any of its revolting member....
people want power without doing anything and when they are told the harsh reality they become arrogant....
in these cases it is better to laugh upon their foolhardiness....wise doesnt show their wisdom...
this week will also be a bit busy....service exams are coming ....i have to make a book review and many other things...
once Winston Churchill remarked-"oh you have enemies.its good as it means that you have stood for something" this one is quite inspiring....